Robert Strayer

Robert Oliver Strayer, 78, of St Pete Beach, FL, passed away on May 26, 2026.

Born November 6th, 1947 in Upper Darby, PA, to Robert Lytle Strayer and Mildred Strong Strayer. 

He graduated Springfield High School 1966 in Springfield, PA.

He earned a B.A. degree from Parsons College, Fairfield, Iowa in 1971 and was a Member of Sigma Pi Fraternity. He also received a master's degree in Psychology from Temple University Philadelphia, PA.

He became a Mason in April of 1987 and was a staunch brother till the end.

He had a General Contractors license and worked on many homes, including his own.

A middle school counselor for Alum Rock School District San Jose, CA.

Robert “Butch” Strayer passed away surrounded by the love of family and friends whose lives were forever touched by his kindness, humor, and generous spirit. Butch was known for his quick wit and the ability to make people laugh no matter the situation. His sense of humor brought comfort, joy, and countless stories that those who knew him will continue to share for years to come. Whether around the dinner table, at the hunting camp, on the water, or visiting with friends and family while playing music or cooking food, Butch had a way of making everyone feel welcome and valued.

 A joyous musician, Butch was never far from a banjo and his love for it took him on many adventures in his life. Lots of friends and kindred spirits were discovered at the plethora of musical gatherings he attended. Singing and playing the banjo always put a smile on his face and, more often than not, a smile on those in earshot. An incredible cook, Butch’s name became synonymous with great food. He enjoyed cooking and preparing spectacular dishes for his family and friends. Even those with particular diets would find themselves breaking their regiments to sample the amazing creations which would emanate as enticing aromas from the kitchen. Butch was an avid outdoors man who found peace and happiness with nature. Hunting and fishing was more than a pastime to him, it was a passion that created lifelong friendships and treasured memories. He deeply appreciated the simple moments spent in nature and the camaraderie that came with it.

 Above all else, Butch loved his family and friends fiercely. He was a giving man who never hesitated to help someone in need, offer encouragement, or lend a hand. His compassion and loyalty left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him. Butch is lovingly remembered by his wife, Elizabeth Burbank Strayer; his son, Robert T. Strayer; his sister, Susie (Michael) Weber; nephew Justin (Zoe) Weber; Niece Celeste Weber (Fiancé Jordan Princeau); Step-Daughter Shawna Henderson; Step-Son Ben (Liz) Henderson and their four children and the many other family members, friends, and loved ones whose lives were enriched by his presence. His legacy of laughter, generosity, and love will continue to live on in the hearts of those he leaves behind. 

He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.