Barry Patrick Spillane

Barry Patrick Spillane, a beloved husband, father, brother, and friend, passed away peacefully at home on November 11, 2026, at the age of 75. Born on December 5, 1950, in Kansas City, Missouri, son of the late Albert R. and Margaret A. (Walden) Spillane.

Before serving his country as a veteran of the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War, Barry graduated from Benedictine College with a degree in sociology, which laid the foundation for his career in social work. He began his professional journey at Monson Developmental Hospital in Monson, Massachusetts, and continued to contribute to various state agencies, culminating in his role at the Department of Revenue, where he worked in child support enforcement.

A resident of Palmer, Massachusetts, since 1984, Barry was a devoted member of St. Thomas Parish and played an active role in the Palmer Food Share. His passion for helping others extended beyond his professional life, touching the lives of many in his community.

Barry cherished time spent with his family, especially his three daughters, who were the center of his world. He enjoyed traveling to Florida, where he delighted in Disney and theme parks, and relished the warm weather. Family outings to Skinner Mountain for picnics were among his favorite pastimes, as were dining excursions with his family as long as french toast was on the menu. He had a deep affection for animals, particularly his beloved cat, Paws.

He is survived by his loving wife, Eileen (Resta) Spillane; his daughters, Jennifer Spillane-Sivret and her husband Derek, Laurie Spillane and her boyfriend Erich Norman, and Amy Spillane. He also leaves behind his siblings, Sharon Morey, Shaun Spillane, and Grace Jacobs and her husband Mark, along with a large extended family and friends who will miss him dearly.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, November 19th, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the Beers & Story Palmer Funeral Home. A Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, Nov. 20th at 11:00 a.m. at St. Thomas Church. Attendees are requested to meet directly at the church. Burial with military honors will take place at 1:00 p.m. at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Agawam.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barry's memory may be made to the Palmer Food Share, reflecting his enduring commitment to community service.